What the Proverbs 31 Woman Can Teach You About Life's Seasons

The Word

Jun 11

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Many of us have read about the Proverbs 31 woman and walked away feeling one of these two things: inspired or overwhelmed. How could one woman possibly do all of that? She rises early, runs a business, takes care of her home, serves the poor, speaks wisdom, fears the Lord, and still manages to look good doing it all. But what if we've been looking at her all wrong?

The Proverbs 31 woman lived through her life in seasons, just like we do.

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She Grew Into That Woman, And So Will You

The passage in Proverbs 31:10-31 is not a snapshot of one perfect day. It’s more like a memoir of a woman’s journey who grew into wisdom, stewardship, and leadership over time. Let’s look at the seasons.

The Early Years: Laying the Foundation

She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands. (v.13)

In this season, she’s learning. She’s working behind the scenes, sharpening her skills, and figuring out how to serve well. If you’re in a season of preparation, you’re in good company. This is where the foundation is built.

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The Building Years: Juggling Roles and Responsibilities

She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard. (v.16)

This is her building season—business, family, influence, or all of the above. It’s busy and full of responsibility. But the Word reminds us that she does it with intention and strength.

The Study Guide for Women includes prompts and reflections to help you solidify your actions during your seasons…on purpose. But listen—

Build wisely so you don’t burn out before your next season starts.

Because again, there are seasons to your life.

The Leadership Years: Speaking and Serving With Wisdom

She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue. (v.26)

In this stage, her character is bearing fruit. Others look to her for guidance, and her words carry weight. If you’re a mentor, manager, or mother right now, you’re likely in this season.

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The Legacy Years: Being Celebrated and Honored

Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her. (v.28)

She didn’t demand honor; she did what was necessary for her family and honor followed. Continue living a life of commitment to your God in your legacy years. You will see the harvest of the seeds you’ve sown. It’s a season of reflection, celebration, and continued influence.

You’ll see themes in Winners Win of life lived, impacts, and results that that comes because of consistent trust in God, even when none of it is perfect.

You’re Becoming Who God Created You to Be

There’s no pressure to be “her” all at once. The Proverbs 31 woman is not a measuring stick; she’s a reminder that growth happens in stages. Every season matters. Every chapter counts. Even when situations change so drastically that you don’t recognize who you are. Trust God that you’re becoming who He needs you to be.

Jesus showed us this in how He engaged with the Woman at the Well (John 4). She was in a season of shame and isolation—but He met her there, revealed her value, and empowered her to become a messenger of hope. She went from overlooked to unforgettable in one conversation.

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Regardless of Your Season, This Is for You

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The Study Guide for Women, co-authored with O. Yvette Ward is an in-depth, reflective resource that applies Biblical truth to real-life seasons.

Take the Next Step

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